On this page, you will find the true story of a client and an escort who fell in love and are now living together. This extraordinary love story is real and began in 2017 in Geneva. It is told through an interview given by the client, Marc*.
How does one end up in a relationship with an escort? Were you a regular client of prostitutes? How old were you when you met her?
I met Irina shortly after I began visiting escorts and erotic salons in Geneva. I was 31 at the time, and Irina was 26. Today, I’m 38. I had just gone through a tough divorce that left me financially strained and feeling bitter towards women in general. Still, I needed physical connection. I avoided seeing the same escort more than once, and I never expected to fall in love or enter a relationship with an escort.
I wasn’t naive either and was well aware of the sordid tales of “foolish clients,” especially in Thailand, falling in love with local escorts, being drained of their money, and returning to Europe with nothing. I had also heard of a friend’s acquaintance who had been thoroughly scammed by a Latin escort in Geneva, losing hundreds of thousands of francs. So, I knew the tricks escorts might use and the “sales” tactics of some to make you feel special. At first, I was cautious and didn’t let myself be fooled.
If you were so cautious, why did you fall in love? What sparked the attraction? Was it love at first sight?
No, it wasn’t exactly love at first sight, mainly because of my wariness. However, there was still a sort of chemistry that made me want to see her again. Irina is of Russian origin, and she’s very feminine. Russian women, in general, have retained their femininity, unlike here, where the feminist movement has drastically changed the dynamics between men and women. I paid the price for that and ended up among the 75% of divorces initiated by women.
When you meet a Russian woman who hasn’t grown up in Europe, it’s really strange. It’s somewhat like the mentality of our grandmothers and great-grandmothers who grew up in the 1940s. The first thing that struck me about Irina was her femininity. When I talk about femininity, it’s not just the stereotype of a well-groomed woman, it’s also and especially her character—humility, modesty, respect, and listening. Not the kind of spoiled princess hysteria often found in European women today. According to some, it’s a bit similar to the character of Southeast Asian women (Thailand, Vietnam, Philippines).
Then, I must also say that Irina has everything I find attractive in a woman, even though I’m not particularly demanding when it comes to physical appearance. She’s slim, with brown eyes, and she has that face you often see in Russian women: thick lips without being exaggerated, and a button nose.
How did your first meeting go? Why did you decide to see this particular escort again?
It was a typical meeting with an escort, a good one even. Irina was smiling and cheerful, welcoming me better than my wife had in 8 years of marriage. She simply made the time enjoyable. We talked a bit at the end, and I noticed she was genuinely interested in my responses, unlike the usual small talk from escorts. I recognized her Russian accent and spoke a few words I remembered from my university days. She appreciated hearing her native language, and it created our first connection.
It was that first connection, the “sincere” moment I spent with her, that led me to see her again. She seemed happy to see me too, which she later admitted. We had another good time together, with a bit of complicity, where I continued to clumsily speak Russian just to make her laugh. At the second meeting, I didn’t think much of it, I just wanted to enjoy the moment. But it was during the third meeting that everything changed…
At the third meeting, I admit, I felt a kind of stress, an apprehension, the same you feel at the beginning of a relationship. I was ashamed of feeling this way about an escort and even thought about canceling. But in the end, I gave in to my impulses and went to see Irina. The meeting went very well once again. Just as I was leaving, I told Irina that I might not come back, as I was thinking of stopping these paid encounters with no future, having made peace with my failed marriage.
When Irina heard that, she immediately told me that if I wanted, I could come next time without paying. At the time, I thought it was just a sales tactic to keep me as a client, so I jokingly said, “Is it buy 3, get 1 free?” That’s when I saw her face darken as she turned away, and I realized I’d hurt her. A bit confused, I tried to make things right, but after some attempts, she finally confessed that she liked me visiting her and wanted it to continue, without needing my money.
Quite surprised, I ended up staying with her for several more hours, far exceeding the initial two hours, and we eventually spent the evening together. We continued to meet several times after that, and gradually, we more or less became a couple, growing increasingly in love with each other.
Wasn’t the beginning of the relationship difficult? Wasn’t it hard for you, especially when thinking about her past?
Yes, I won’t hide that it was very difficult at the beginning. You feel torn between your feelings for her and the disgust that any man would normally experience in this situation. Over time, you get used to it… more or less.
Today, I put things in perspective. Who is truly at fault between an escort and a woman who divorces with young children, demands thousands in alimony, and spends that money -meant for the children – on luxury items and vacations? Personally, I have more respect for former escorts like Irina than for some women today who destroy their families and their children’s well-being purely out of selfishness.
Irina had a difficult childhood growing up in 1990s Russia, a challenging time following the collapse of the Soviet Union. The economy was in shambles, and life was hard for many, with prostitution being widespread. During her teenage years, Irina faced family issues, eventually running away and becoming homeless for a while. She initially began working as an escort in Russia before moving to Europe and eventually Switzerland. Today, she has stopped working as an escort and found a job in the canton of Vaud, where we live together.
Do you have any plans for today in 2024?
Yes, we are thinking about having children. We are also considering leaving Switzerland for Russia. The current serious societal issues (woke culture, mass immigration) push us to move to a place where politicians still work for the common good. We’re waiting to save enough money to invest in several apartments in Russia and buy our home in Kazan, where Irina is originally from.
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